All of this is true. And all of it should frustrate you that something many men view as a completely safe space (or at the worst moderately annoying from time to time) is so hostile to women.
I'm a career support professional and team leader with over two decades of experience. I believe in leading and coaching teams of humans through active listening and empathy. I also work to broaden the understanding of these concepts, as well as of the importance of remote work, a culture of graceful mistakes, and diversity of thought in everyday work environments.